Goal Setting

Beat the best: Standing on the shoulders of giants!

Beat the best: Standing on the shoulders of giants!

It’s that time of year where we build our plan for next year. We set bigger goals and build strategies to reach them. For those of us who are really intentional about it, we ask, “who must I become to achieve my dreams?”

This topic is top of mind for me as I build out my 2021 growth plan. The growth plan is where the rubber meets the road and you set milestones in your calendar for growth and development celebrations. There are a lot of ways in which you can accomplish this and for me, as I observe my goals, I ask:

  • What books must I read to become the person who achieves these goals?
  • What podcasts will help me grow into that person?
  • Which people do I want to model my success and growth after?

People with Giant Shoulders

That last one really stood out to me this year and it just might be the change you need in your own playbook for an explosive year ahead.

Goals are targets, and if you followed my intentional goal setting series, you know we can make them crystal clear and reverse engineer their inevitable success. What’s even better than a clear goal? How about a real life person who is already doing it?

Goggins

One such person who came up for me this year was David Goggins. If you don’t know Goggins, do yourself a favor and watch this video. David Goggins embodies a mindset I want to emulate, embody, and enhance… in that order.

The best part, I don’t have to suffer through some of the hell David Goggins experienced and which he put himself through to become the man now know as the “Hardest Motherf*cker on Planet Earth.” I can instead listen, read about, and study David Goggins, where he came from, where he is now, and how he arrived. I can shave years off of the clock, if I’m willing to be as hard as he is.

One thing I admire about David Goggins, above most else, is his determination. He talks about his inner-voice who he’s just named “Goggins.” Goggins is that voice that will not let him quit. He describes hitting that governor, the point where our brain throttles us backward, to keep itself comfortable, and continuing to mash that accelerator until the brain finally realizes you’re not going to quit.

Idols so you don’t idle

Who will propel you forward in the next year? Will it be someone who is doing well in your field? Your sport? Family life? Whoever you pick, make sure they are the pinnacle of success, in your eyes. Do the things they do and do your best to think like they do. They already put in all of the hard work. You simply need to imitate what they are doing to reach their level.

Once you’ve successfully modeled your idol and achieved their level of success, you earn the right to apply creativity to make it your own and to take it to the next level. The fact that someone else has done it means it can be done better.

“Can’t be done”

Once upon a time, it was thought that the human body could not possibly run a mile in four minutes. In the 1940s, the closest anyone had ever gotten was 4:01. No one had done it and everyone doubted it. That was until 1954 when runner, Roger Bannister, achieved one mile in 3:59.4.

After Bannister set the new one mile record, a funny thing happened.. twenty-four more people ran one mile within four minutes in the year to follow. The point being: once someone has accomplished your own goal you can quickly reach their level by avoiding their pitfalls and focusing energy on the things which did work.

As you look ahead into your 2021, who will you become to do the things necessary, to achieve your goals? Who will help you get there faster?

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What you focus on expands! Intentional Goal Setting Series (3/3)

What you focus on expands! Intentional Goal Setting Series (3/3)

Are you setting goals which make their achievement inevitable?

If you’ve been following thus far, you’ve set ludicrous goals for yourself, you’ve made your goals SMART, and broken them down to a one year playlist for a monumental year! Take a minute to celebrate your accomplishments thus far! Those who simply write out their goals are 39.5% more likely to achieve them. Those who add accountability increase that likelihood by 76.7%. Are you focusing on the right things when you set your goals?

Where do we begin? At this point, you have seven really big goals in front of you. I strongly encourage you not to attempt undertaking all seven at the same time. How do you gain even more perspective on what the time commitments of these goals will be and ensure that you are in the high-achieving group of goal-getters?

Just Two

Your next year is a marathon. You have twelve months in which to become the person you need to be to achieve your goals and realize success and transformation, unlike any you have achieved before. As you review your goals, look for those which will have domino effects in your life. If you see one which will make another goal easier or unnecessary, move it up the list. Find the goal which above all others will have the largest ripple and move it to the top. This is your one thing!

Next, pick a second goal which will have another effect in another area of your life. If you picked a job or business goal for your first, pick an area of your personal life to complement your first. Finance is the wild card on the board and is the conduit between your business life and your personal life. If you picked finances first, pick your next priority in either area.

Go Small

Focus the goals you've set and go small.

Remember the clarifying question from installment two, which took your someday goal all the way to your one year goal? We are going to continue zooming in with our microscope to go smaller. Using your one Thing, ask yourself…

“What must I accomplish in this month to achieve my one year goal?”

When you write your answer, use the name of the month for which you are writing your goal. If your one year goal was to sign 48 contracts, your one month might read: “In December 2020, I must sign four contracts.” We’re not done yet! Go smaller still…

“What must I accomplish in this week to achieve my one month goal?”

Write your weekly goal as you did your monthly goal: “This week, I must sign one contract.” As you get into relationship with your goals and develop a daily habit of reviewing them, you will keep your goals with your planner and ask yourself each day:

“What must I accomplish today to achieve my one week goal?”

You must earn the right to add more goals!

Once you have mastered the process of accomplishing your first goals you can consider adding more goals to the mix. Don’t rush into it too quickly. Even if you only accomplished these two goals this year, you’d be a massive success when compared to the majority of your peers.

Once you’ve developed success habits which make your goal accomplishment inevitable, you’ll know. You will be making steady progress toward your goals and still wanting more. If you are feeling overwhelmed or maxed out, it is not the right time. You will know when you’ve earned the right to add one more goal to the mix.

You’re bound to let yourself off easy

Coaches and accountability partners will help you accomplish the goals you've set!

Self-accountability is a myth. How many times have you felt in control of your impulses when you passed over the tempting dessert options a restaurant, only to go home and indulge on junk food to reward yourself for being good? Willpower is not on will call!

Whether you hire a coach or find an accountability partner, an objective outsider can easily tell if you did or did not do what you said was important to you. Set yourself up for maximum success and join the group achieving their goals 76.7% more often than those who do not.

Take Action!

1. Pick your top personal and business goals (2 max, 1 per area)
2. Continue goal-setting to the now.

One year > One Month > One Week > Today

3. Use the 411 to track your goal achievement. Download yours HERE
4. Enlist support! Hire a coach or get an accountability partner.
5. Share this with a friend who could use help achieving their goals.

Prior post:

<– Your future in focus! Intentional Goal Setting Series (2/3)

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Your future in focus! Intentional Goal Setting Series (2/3)

Your future in focus! Intentional Goal Setting Series (2/3)

Welcome back! If you missed us last week, we were being “unrealistic” about our goals. If you missed that one, go check it out now and get an idea of how your future self will live and how your higher self will be. Once you’ve set your moonshot goals, how will you get there? Today I’ll share with you a simple two part process to bring your biggest dreams into focus and to make their achievement inevitable.

Step 1 – Make your goals SMART!

The simple test to determine how likely you are to achieve your goals is to ask “how will I know when I’ve achieved it?” If the finish line can’t be seen or isn’t clear, how will we know what must be done to cross it? Make sure your goals can check each one of these requirements:

Specific – What specifically are you looking to accomplish. Simply saying you want to, say, “get stronger” violates a few of these rules; the first being it does not state specifically the strength you are looking to achieve. Is it physical? mental? just your legs?

Measurable – At what time can you check the box signifying your accomplishment of your goal? Being “financially independent” is a common goal I hear and it fails the test. With an extremely modest lifestyle and a country with a low cost of living, someone could technically be financially independent on $100,000, if invested properly. Conversely, if you plan to be financially independent, living a lavish life in Southern California, that number will likely have extra zeros.

Attainable – I know, I know! I told you to be unrealistic. I should have known you’d put time travel as your financial goal, so you could go back and bet on sporting events, like in Back to the Future 2. Your goal needs to be within the realm of human capability, which still gives you a lot of latitude, because we are amazing machines!

Relevant – It must support the life you want to live. Fortunately, since we are starting with our highest level of goals, your goals are all relevant to the life you want to live, unless you picked a goal to support someone else’s priorities. Relevancy will come into play in the next step as we go small with our goals. If your goal in your finances is to pay off your debt and your smaller goal includes investing, while this is a great thing to do, it is not directly relevant to your debt elimination goal.

Time Bound – Every time we set a goal, from here on out, we must have clarity on when we will achieve them. If we incorporate the other four elements, we could end up with a goal like: “to save $1 Million in my 401k for retirement.” It is specific, measurable, attainable, and relevant, however it doesn’t state if this is a goals I want to achieve in the next ten years or the next fifty!

Step 2 – Goal setting to the Now!

Remember those big scary Someday Goals you set? Remember how insurmountable and out of reach they may have felt? Now we’ve made them SMART, so they are a little clearer and more in focus, yet they are still big!

Goal setting to the now is where we systematically reverse engineer your goal to build a staircase to lead you to the moon where your goal’s achievement lies! The process is simple and empowering! Using it will help you realize that you can accomplish your biggest goals and dreams.

You start with your Someday goal and set a 5 year milestone using the clarifying question:

“What must I accomplish in the next 5 years to achieve my someday goal?”

If your highest level goal is less than 5 years away, it may be that you did not dream as large as you could have. Nevertheless, we’ll find your next goal container, ahead. Stop at this 5 year mark and write your SMART goal in the first-person present tense and anchor them in relevance. For example:

“It is 12/31/2025 and I have generated $500k of passive income for the 2026 calendar year so I can spend five days each week with my family and on my hobbies and only work on things which excite me.”

Ensure the milestone will support the future goal, which it will, so long as it really is SMART! Then we’ll repeat the process for the next year by asking:

“What must I accomplish in the next 1 year to achieve my 5 year goal?”

Now you will have your 1 year milestone to measure your progress toward your five year goal. It will look something like this:

“It is 12/31/2021 and I have generated $100k of passive income for the 2022 calendar year so I can spend my weekends and every evening with my family and on my hobbies.”

Take Action!

1. Goal set to the now. Take all of your Someday Goals down to 5 and 1 Year Goals.
2. Rewrite your goals so that they are SMART and write them in the first person present format.
3. Anchor your goals with relevance and highlight what accomplishing your goals will do for you.

Congratulations! You now have a one year action plan which will lead you ever closer to living the life of your dreams. If you enjoyed this process, check back next week as we build out a schedule for success for you to live your entire upcoming year by. Win your day, win your life!

Prior post:

<— (1/3) You need to be “unrealistic”

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(3/3) What you focus on expands! —>

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You need to be “unrealistic!” Intentional Goal Setting Series (1/3)

You need to be “unrealistic!” Intentional Goal Setting Series (1/3)

Happy New Year! Everyone in business will be ringing in 2021 this coming weekend. You hadn’t heard? Our pay days are the lagging indicator of the work we’ve put in now and the work we put in today will likely build toward income in January. For some, sales cycles may be shorter than two months, yet it is never too early to start setting yourself up for success!

I’ve met people who dread setting goals. Oftentimes, it is because they have trouble achieving the goals they’ve set for themselves or because they are being forced to do so. Goal setting is one of my favorite things to do and I’m exciting to share with you, over the next three weeks a proven process for taking your biggest dreams and making them your reality.

If I showed you the picture of a finished house and asked you to build it, how likely is it you would even know where to begin? Better, how about if I gave you a lot, wood, cement, tools, and even a crew. Without a clear set of instructions, how would you know what to build? Even if you were a carpenter or a general contractor, you wouldn’t know the dimensions, let alone the materials finishes.

How about if you got to watch a time lapse video of the house being built… in reverse… so you could watch the house being disassembled, piece by piece. You could slow down the replay and see how things are built. You could write down all of the components needed to ensure the roof stays up and that the foundation is stable.

We do the same thing with our goals. The two most common mistakes I’ve seen with goals are:

  • People set big goals and never build a plan to achieve them. They are discouraged by attempts to build their house from the finished picture and throw in their towel.
  • People set small goals, labeling them “realistic” and hit them. This may be even worse than the first, as we train ourselves to see mediocrity as success.

Today, we’ll paint that picture of our finished house. Just like your life, that finished house is made up of several components and systems which are all vital to its operation as a complete house. What are the parts of your life which complete you as a whole person? From their book, The One Thing, Gary Keller and Jay Papasan describe a life which can be grouped into seven areas.

  • Personal Life
  • Physical Health
  • Spiritual Life
  • Key Relationships
  • Finances
  • Job
  • Business

Take action!

1. In your journal or a notebook you can build on for the next few weeks, write a long term goal for each of the seven areas of your life.

2. Each goal should be your ultimate picture of success. Dare to dream big! If your goal can be accomplished in the next five years, you aren’t dreaming big enough!


3. Once you’ve written your Someday Goals, write them in a first-person narrative, using inclusive statements and non-conditional language. Example:


“When I am living my level 10 life, I will have every weekend and evening with my family. We will take one long vacation every quarter and will travel internationally twice per year.”

Bring your completed someday goals with you next week as we take the first steps toward an action plan to complete them. You may have seen me write about dominos in the past and how a domino can knock down another which is 50% larger. These are your earth to the moon dominos. We are going to chunk down to your two inch dominos which you can knock down with a simple flick of your finger, starting the chain reaction to your dreams!

Next step:

—> (2/3) You Future In Focus!

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You’re one habit away from your next breakthrough

You’re one habit away from your next breakthrough

What stands between where you are now and where you want to be? The answer may be more simple than you think.

Your outcomes are a lagging indicator of the habits you keep. Each time you repeat a behavior, you reinforce the habit that reflexively caused that behavior in the first place. If the behavior is positive and serves to improve your life, automating that behavior will be beneficial. On the contrary, if you repeat a behavior that does not serve you, you will move further from your goals.

Through myelination, the process in which your brain wraps nerve connections with a performance enhancing sheath called myelin, your brain builds super highways to speed up and automate the tasks you perform repeatedly. The trouble is that myelin does not discriminate between good and bad habits. Just as putting your running shoes on first thing out of bed in the morning reinforces positive health habits, grabbing a bag of potato chips and turning on the television as soon as you get home from work can become a reinforced and automated task.

The habit execution process is comprised of four steps. They are:

  • Cue
  • Craving
  • Response
  • Reward

When you climb out of bed in the morning and see your running shoes (cue), you are reminded that your morning run, once executed enough will give you the health you desire (craving). Thinking about the beach body you’ll have on your upcoming trip will trigger you to take that run (response), even though you’re tired, because you feel great and have already fit better into those pants which were getting snug (reward).

I’ll spare you the process for the downward spiral that would follow a daily crumb covered shirt and binge watching old sitcoms habit. For the habits we wish to make permanent and prevalent, we must make the process easy and remove obstacles. If we wish to de-program a bad habit, we most add obstacles to that habit process.

To reinforce a positive habit

  • Cue: Make it obvious
  • Craving: Make it attractive
  • Response: Make it easy
  • Reward: Make it satisfying

To break a negative habit

  • Cue: Make it invisible
  • Craving: Make it unattractive
  • Response: Make it difficult
  • Reward: Make it unsatisfying

Building a new habit

Start small. If your track-record says you don’t work out for an hour a day, five times each week, you may find it challenging to commit to this drastic of a behavior change right away. If you miss your goal and only make it to the gym twice each week and tire out after thirty minutes, you’re making it easy to give up and throw in the towel. Meanwhile, if you hadn’t been going in to the gym at all before, you just went an hour each week and four hours per month which you otherwise wouldn’t have.

What is the smallest action, which would contribute to improvements in your habit formation and progress toward your goal? Perhaps the goal is simply to take your gym clothes with you to the office and to be wearing them by 4:00pm each day. Then, even if you don’t make it to the gym, you’ll have an easy to attain win.

Make the habit you are looking to build unavoidable and you will make it inevitable. If your goal is to eat healthier and your fresh fruits are stashed away in the refrigerator or in your pantry, you’ve hidden the cue, making it invisible. Put the fruit in a bowl and display it on your counter so that when you are hungry for a snack, you won’t venture far into the kitchen before it becomes obvious and more convenient than the pint of ice cream in the freezer.

Breaking an old habit

If the first step in eating healthier was to make the good food more obvious, the next ought to be to make the junk foods invisible. If you have a candy dish out on your living room table and you are under the age of eighty or don’t have grand-children, remove it! The same elements are in play and your myelin won’t care if you are reaching for a juicy apple or a Werther’s Original (seriously, why do you have a candy dish?).

Once the cue is invisible, your neural pathways will still tell you to seek out rock candy you’ve always eaten, each time you’re hungry. We need to break the next step in the process and make the craving unattractive. Call out the negative effects these decisions will have on your goals, in this case your health. Simply saying aloud to yourself “if I eat this candy I will get cavities, gain weight, and look less desirable in my speedo” will hopefully reduce the craving and make eating candy seem unattractive. Now, as you make your way to the pantry with the step stool you had to retrieve, to make your access to the sweets you seek more challenging you’ve already made it a challenge to enact the response. If after all of this you’ve still reached the candy dish, it will hopefully seem so repulsive that your next action will be to dump the whole thing into the garbage.

Take action today!

Do a habit audit and make a habit scorecard. Lay out a day in your life on paper. It should look something like this:

  • Wake up
  • Check phone
  • Brush teeth
  • Eat breakfast
  • Shower
  • Drive to work
  • Check email
  • Lead generate
  • Check social media
  • Eat lunch
  • Go to the gym
  • Work projects
  • Drive home
  • Eat dinner
  • Watch television
  • Brush teeth
  • Go to bed
  • = Wake up
  • – Check phone
  • + Brush teeth
  • = Eat breakfast
  • = Shower
  • = Drive to work
  • – Check email
  • + Lead generate
  • – Check social media
  • = Eat lunch
  • + Go to the gym
  • = Work projects
  • = Drive home
  • = Eat dinner
  • – Watch television
  • + Brush teeth
  • = Go to bed

Now, simply rate the habits in your day with a “+” if the habit is good and helps you move closer to your goals, “-” if it moves you away from your goals, or “=” if the habit is neutral. There is no template for these scores and they are highly personal and dependent upon where you are and where you want to be. When you are finished, your list might look like the column on the right.

Once you know where you are, it’ll be easier to determine the actions you must take to get where you want to be. Are you clear on your goals? Do you know how to dream big and reverse engineer your biggest goals? If not, check out my recording from my last goal-setting webinar. If you need support in goals and habit management, please connect with me. I’m here to support you.

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What to do when your cheese gets moved

What to do when your cheese gets moved

In his 1988 novel “Who Moved My Cheese?” Dr. Spencer Johnson tells a tale of two mice and two “little people,” living within a maze, on a journey to find their cheese. The cheese is a metaphor for what each character is seeking. For the two mice, it really is cheese. For the people, it is the success, money, love, validation, or whatever it is which they seek.

In the story, each morning the mice rise and lace up their running shoes, while the little people don their jogging suits to enter the labyrinth, in search of their cheese. The mice are named Sniff and Scurry. Sniff has a keen sense of smell and has the ability to detect the best possible route to his cheese. Scurry on the other has quick reflexes and will change direction quickly once he realizes that he has entered a dead-end corridor or that his cheese is not present. The mice have simple brains and are purely reactionary and reflexive. Meanwhile, the little people, named Hem and Haw have complex brains and the ability to analyze situations.

I could easily rewrite the entire story, however it is already a short enough read (seriously, you can read it in less than an hour). As the story goes, one day Sniff, Scurry, Hem, and Haw come upon a cheese station which is full of cheese. Hem and Haw immediately move their homes closer to the cheese station, exchange their jogging suits for more comfortable attire, and live as though the cheese will never run out, until one day it does.

When this happens, it causes great distress for Hem and Haw, as they were not prepared for the change, had not noticed the signs of the diminishing cheese, and had no contingency plan. Sniff and Scurry meanwhile did not adapt their behavior. Each day they would run to the cheese station and when they arrived they would remove their running shoes, tie the laces together, and hang them around their necks, so that they would be ready to run again as soon as needed. Sniff and Scurry were aware of the diminishing cheese supply and were prepared to seek more. As soon as the cheese supply ran out, they did what they were implicitly prepared to do… go find more cheese.

Hem and Haw meanwhile, with their complex human brains lamented over the long lost cheese, assumed someone had simply moved it, and were overall in denial about the fact that they had not been judicious about the situation surrounding their cheese. After some time, Haw began to break the cycle and realized he needed to move on and find another cheese station, just as he had this last one. Hem was unwilling to break the cycle and preferred the comfort of his familiar, even though now cheese-less station.Haw finally develops the courage to break free from the cycle and leave the cheese station. Haw scrawls into a wall of the maze “What would you do if you weren’t afraid?” He thought on this and embarked on a challenging, often uncomfortable, and new path to places in the maze he had not yet explored, ultimately leading him to new cheeses he had never experienced before.

I love this story, because it can apply to any situation in life or business where you are upended from your routine and forced to deal with adversity, a new playing field, and new rules. In these times, this story couldn’t be more relevant as we find ourselves faced with a changing landscape and new challenges on all fronts. How have you shown up?

  • Have you been Hem? Frozen, unwilling to let go of the past, and romanticizing about the way things were.
  • Are you a Haw? Acknowledging that things have changed, realizing that they may not return to the way they were, and adapting to the landscape.
  • Were you a Sniff? Did you sense the change as it began happening and react in anticipation?
  • Were you more like Scurry? Did you see the change as it happened and pivot immediately, realizing you could no longer keep heading where you had been?

As great as it sounds to be a Sniff or a Scurry, this is not a natural human tendency for us humans with our complex brains. The vast majority of people respond as Hem did and the lucky few who are able to break their cycles of denial respond as Haw did.

We can prepare ourselves to deal with change to be more of a Sniff or a Scurry. Whether in business or in life, we can continually re-assess our situation. If we set measurable goals, track our progress, and routinely analyze our environment, we can Sniff out the trouble before it emerges and begin our pivot toward a new strategy. What tools and systems do you have in place to routinely analyze your progress toward your goal achievement?

If we have taken the time to plan our goals and have created contingency plans, we can immediately, at the first sign of danger, adopt that plan and take corrective action, just as Scurry would. I wrote a great post about why our top military special forces units create more than one contingency plan and what you can do to prepare yourself for change WHEN (not IF) it happens. (Check it out: Pressing Reset)

Has your cheese moved? Is your supply running low? Are you suddenly out of cheese? Have you not yet found your first cheese? A great starting place will be to return to your goals and your “big why.” Why do you do what it is you do? What are you seeking in life? What would need to happen for you to achieve those goals? I want to share my goal setting webinar from July 2020 where I shared the system of “goal-setting to the now” and the GPS, as my gift to you. May you be as aware as Sniff, as nimble as Scurry, and as wise as Haw. If you find yourself a Hem or know someone who is, I can help.

Remember to tie the laces of your running shoes together and hang them around your neck. You never know how soon you may need them again.

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Win Your Day, Win Your Life!

Win Your Day, Win Your Life!

The best time to plant a tree was ten years ago. The next best time is today! It’s not hard for us to daydream about the life we’d like to live and the people we want to be. If you caught my goal setting class last week (if you didn’t, you can watch the recording and download your own one page business plan, HERE), you know we can reverse-engineer your life’s goals and lay a roadmap to make each year a measurable step toward your ideal life. Why then do we procrastinate? Do we not value our precious and finite time on this world enough?

Let’s start off by quantifying how much life you’ve lived and how much you expect you have left. According to website, Macrotrends (https://www.macrotrends.net/countries/USA/united-states/life-expectancy), life expectancy in 2020 is 78.93 years. That’s 28,809 days. Now that is the average. I don’t know about you, however, I am dedicated to living to triple digits, meaning that if I reached my 100th birthday, it would be a win, at 36,525 days. I am currently 34 years old and on the day I am writing this post I have been on this earth for 12,478 days. By subtracting my current days from my anticipated days, I know I have 24,047 days remaining. Imagine that countdown clock on your wall. Would you change your behavior if each day you saw that number counting down? 24,046… 24,045… 24,044. Imagine if you weren’t as optimistic as me and you only expected to live the average and that countdown was about to fall below 10,000. How would you behave tomorrow to ensure you don’t squander another day and to ensure your success?

In The ONE Thing (Gary Keller, Jay Papasan), the authors symbolize accomplishments in life like a series of dominoes. Studies have shown that a single domino standing can knock down another domino, fifty-percent larger than itself. If you start with a two-inch domino, the second would be three-inches, and the third four-and-a-half. As the dominoes get exponentially larger, so does the energy exerted by the last domino. The twenty-third domino would be the height of the Eiffel Tower, the thirty-first would be three-thousand feet taller than Mt. Everest, and the fifty-seventh would reach the moon from the earth’s surface.

Imagine how little effort it took this man to knock down his 5mm domino that toppled the one-hundred pound monolith at the end.

What doesn’t change is the energy required to knock down that simple two-inch domino, starting the chain reaction which inevitably knocks down your moonshot domino. Sometimes in life, you’re staring down that domino that casts shade on Mt. Everest, wondering how you’ll ever topple it. Now that you know your objective, we need to go small.

Once you’re clear on where you want to be, we can reverse-engineer your goals and break them down to the year, month, week, and even the day. If you knew that adherence to your schedule today would build the life of your dreams, would you squander another day? Would you let other people’s priorities and “emergencies” distract you from the playbook of your dreams? Your clock is counting down. You don’t have until next year… Not even next quarter. You could live to be 100, like I intend. You could make it to 78. You might develop a rare form of cancer and be given a prognosis of one year from today. What is the legacy you will leave? What will your obituary say about how you lived?

If you are stuck finding your big domino, check out my goal setting class, HERE. Once you have your big domino, join me at my next class, Get the 4-1-1 on Your Schedule. We’ll reverse engineer your goals and I’ll give you the tools you need to fill your calendar with the activities which will ensure your inevitable success.

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Goal Setting Like a Billionaire

Goal Setting Like a Billionaire

When was the last time you looked at your goals? Was it in December? …December five years ago? It’s too easy to live day-to-day, putting out fires and just surviving. How often do you daydream? Remember when you were a kid and you could look ahead to the things you wanted to have and what you wanted to be when you grew up? I’m not sure who to fault for the majority of us abandoning those childhood dreams and goals we had to be “more reasonable.”

The point is, many of us have throttled our goals and imposed limiting-beliefs on ourselves. We’ve created dialogs around success as being our current salary plus a two-percent cost of living increase, a reasonable pension (should we live long enough), and another year of job security. Why does the child in us who wanted to be an astronaut, have a castle for a house, and drive a flying car allow us to settle on such mediocrity?

I challenge you today, right now, to dream big again. Go ahead… do it right now… I’ll wait. It’s harder than you remember. Isn’t it? When we were kids, we read fiction, watched cartoons, and daydreamed big things. Yet as we age, it seems we forget how to dream big, or worse, we program ourselves to dream small.

I want to take you on an adventure. Get in a comfortable place… not at the office… not in the car. Find a place in your house or a park; someplace you can totally relax and feel comfortable closing your eyes. Close your eyes and focus on your breathing. Take a deep breath in through your nose, slowly to the count of four, and fill your lungs, until it gets uncomfortable. Hold your breath to the count of four. Now slowly release your breath through your mouth to the count of four. Totally exhale all of the air from your lungs and rest to the count of four. Repeat this breathing exercise until you are totally relaxed.

Once you have found calm in your breath, take note of the sensations around you. Is it hot? Is it cold? Is there a breeze tickling the hairs on the back of your neck? Focus on only your immediate surroundings. Remember what it was like to be a kid again; when all that mattered was what was happening right in that moment. Settle in and let your mind wander. Daydream! Undoubtedly, you will find yourself thinking of something, someone, or someplace that makes you happy. Perhaps its been a while since you’ve done this and you are out of practice. It’s okay… You’ll find your way back.

Explore that feeling and even allow yourself to live out a short story. Be intentional about using this daydream to picture what it is that brings a smile to your face. Who do you need to be to experience that joy? What are the things you need to do to live that life? How will you achieve this picturesque life?

I highly recommend having a journal or something to write on as you come out of this experience. Once you have ended your daydream, get intentional about the feeling you’ve experienced and the joy you felt. Jot down the feelings you experienced. If you are more visual, jot down what you saw around you. Unleash your childhood creativity and write a narrative for the person who feels that great and leads that life. Where do they live? What do they like? Who surrounds them? What do they do for fun? What is their purpose?

If you can paint this picture for yourself, you are close to identifying your “someday” goals. It’s okay if you don’t know how long it will take you to get there. It’s better if you don’t know. If you are only thinking out to the next year or two of possibility, you have not challenged yourself enough. Once you identify your someday goals, you are ready to focus these goals and determine the steps you need to take to make them your reality.

Your next step is to check out my Halftime Goal Setting class, being taught live on Zoom, for Free! If you cannot make it or if you are reading this after July 14, 2020, please contact me. I will offer you more support in identifying and accomplishing your goals. Click the button below to enroll in my goal setting class.

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Pressing Reset

Pressing Reset

Not often in life do things go perfectly as planned. Overcoming adversity and challenge is routine in all parts of life and business. No doubt, 2020 has thrown its share of challenges at us which have challenged and stressed our systems. Though some are looking forward to quarters three and four with high optimism, assuming it will only be smooth sailing, there is no guarantee and we can not afford to throw caution to the wind.

Remember December of 2019. It wasn’t that long ago. We were brimming with excitement as we set our goals for 2020, wrote our business plans, and made New Year’s resolutions. I saw many jubilant posts reading “20/20 in 2020” and the like. How many of us planned for a global-health event which would pause our economy for three months, legislation and regulations challenging the operations of our businesses, riots, and maybe even murder hornets! Truth is, there is no way we could have planned for any of these things.

In the military, when special units plan their operations, they don’t simply write one script. Their experience has taught them that things, often outside of their control, can and will go wrong. Many top tier special forces teams don’t even create just one backup plan… they create three! They use the acronym PACE, which stands for:

Primary
Alternate
Contingency
Emergency

In the 2011 raid of Osama Bin Laden’s compound, special forces units had rehearsed the operation for weeks, on their primary objective. They built a replicate model of his compound and rehearsed the assault until it was perfected. The only flaw in the rehearsal was that they used chain-link fence to replicate the outer walls of the compound. When the mission was executed, the solid and impermeable walls of the compound did not allow the first Black Hawk helicopter’s rotor wash to disperse and it deflected it back at the helicopter causing a controlled crash landing.

Fortunately, an alternate plan had already been devised and the second Black Hawk landed outside of the compound’s walls and the raid went according to one of its alternate plans, leading to a successful outcome and the removal of one of the world’s worst terrorist leaders.

The primary plan is where most of us stop. When life throws us a curve ball, we are forced to react in real time, more than likely when we aren’t prepared to do so. Having even just one alternate plan would allow us to pivot quickly, should our circumstances change. The reality is that many businesses are regularly affected, in big ways, and have been for as long as we have been building and operating businesses. The difference now is only that it is happening to many industries all at once.

Regardless of whether you made a contingency plan, or even a business plan at all, you do not and should not wait until December to review your progress toward your goals and plan ahead for next year. We all need a halftime to assess our performance from the first half, re-orient, and determine what we’ll need to do in the second half to achieve our goals this year.

If you are behind on your goals, stuck on where to go next, or unsure about what you should be doing, we need to talk. I’m offering free business assessments to help you identify the next move which will propel your business forward.

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